A relationship, often is a very big word for someone, very confusing for someone, very jovial for someone, very sentimental for some so on and so forth.
It is the relationship where majority of the people fail to understand and build with others.
A relationship is a strong bridge built between two individuals to transfer thoughts from one end to another and vice verse.
There are basically 2 types of relationships in this world:-
1) The blood relationship which would come by birth.
2) The relationships we build because of the kind of blood we carry. :-)
The first kind of relationship is something which we have with our parents and siblings where we carry pure love without any selfishness.
This will be a very strong pure form of relationship which prevails till our death. In this relationship people often think of giving everything to the other person without expecting anything from them.
This relationship is free from ego, jealous, hatred, sadness and many other negative emotions. This relationship is filled with more of love, care, joy, happiness and other good things with pure heart.
The second kind of relationship is something that we build with others in the outer world like our friends, spouse, business partners, neighbors etc.,
This is a relationship built with slight expectations from the other person.
“They follow give and take policy”in this.
Very rarely we find relationships where people are ready to do anything for the other person.
“They say it takes years together to build a relationship and only few minutes to break it.”
This mainly happens in the second kind of relationship where the relationship is built mainly on the trust and belief of the other person.
Many a times misunderstandings come in this relationships because of possessiveness i.e. expecting other person to behave the way you wanted them to be.
But when an individual genuinely tries to build a relationship, we accept the other person how they are instead of wanting them to be like how we are.But many a times people expect things from others which they indeed will not be ready to do (exceptions are their).
This is where a fake relationship builds and will not sustain for a long time, leading for fear in building other relationships in life, because of the bad experience they got from their former relationships.
If we search in any individuals life we find only a very few such relationships that are built without any expectations from the other person.
So, conversely the person with whom he would build the relationship would also do the same ie., “ WHAT YOU GIVE TO OTHERS IS WHAT YOU GET BACK WITH INTEREST IN RETURN.”For a relationship to be very strong, always give everything you can give without expecting anything in return. Be very honest in the relationship else your trust factor will get spoiled.
A person who builds ‘N’ no of such relationships in his life will become immortal in many hearts, even after his death.:-)
So , relate your relationship you want it to be, to lead a happy and peaceful life with many soul mates….
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